Monday, September 15, 2008

ever wonder?

have you ever sat down and thought how life would be if you didnt have a specific person in it?

well, right about now im having those thoughts. How different life would be if i didnt have certain friends to turn to. How i might be a different person if they werent here. We were talking about identity in class on friday. It had me thinking and i truly believe choices and people mold your identity. Well, if someone has a part of your identity and they leave does that part leave with them?

as for right now, i have a person in my life that just might leave tomorrow. He is a co worker and a friend. He helps out my family when ever we're in need. He honestly is a good person. There are always those little people in your life where you think that they dont have much impact in your life. This is the way i saw him, as julio the guy that comes over once in a while to visit my mom, and someone i see everyday at work.

he has just told me the news that he might get deported. Im praying for him but noone ever knows. This has made me realize that life would be so much different without him.
So cherish every moment you have with someone because you never know when they just might be gone.

2 comments:

Alex M. said...

I had a similar experience. One of my best friends got deported last December and it absolutely devastated me because it was so unexpected. Yeah, we really need to cherish the time we share with our family and friends because you never know if you'll ever see them again the following day.

Miss Jessy said...

My best frien recently left and moved to NY. and i never realized how much time i had where i could have been with her. so much time that i didnt take advantage of =/
i miss her and if i never see her again i'll will always regret the time i wasted not being with her...